We have moved around a lot since we have been married and as fellow married couples I am sure that you have been there too. A couple will invite you over for dinner and you don't know them that well, but you go because it's a free meal. You show up, not sure what to expect and basically you will either 'click' and have a great time where the evening ends in planning a vacation together that coming summer, or your wife will connect with the other wife, but her husband it the complete opposite of you and just wants to talk about video games. Or sometimes I would 'click' with the other husband and would plan to run a marathon and train together, yet the wife is struggling to keep a good face on as the other wife is discussing her crafty apron that took her 2 weeks to make.......geesh! It can get really confusing and frustrating. Come on, you know you have been there. I assume that once you have more kids, it will be even more difficult....... Ok, you get the point, right?! Is anyone on the same page as me on this or what?
So let the couple dating continue......as it is an on going process. At least you meet new people and once in a while come back with an awesome story to tell.
At least I 'clicked' with my wifey!
[snorkeling in mexico, 2008]